You’re not stuck.
Something you believe is quietly controlling your decisions.
And it might not even be yours.
That’s why you keep repeating the same patterns without realising it.
Most people never question this.
So nothing actually changes.
Figure out what’s controlling your decisions:
Tuesday, 12 May 2026
Starts 7:30PM
Drama Centre Black Box, National Library Building.
BE CURIOUS LIVE FEATURING NIR EYAL
If this feels familiar,
pause for a second.
You’ve tried to change, but you end up in the same place.
You make a decision, then question it later.
You know what to do, but something is holding you back
You feel like you’re choosing, but the outcome feels predictable
That’s not random.
And it’s not just “who you are.”
Not all beliefs start with you.
Some were picked up early.
From people, environments, expectations.
Over time, they stop feeling like beliefs
and start feeling like you.
Until they quietly start controlling your decisions.
That’s why you keep repeating patterns
even when you’re trying to change.
This is not just a talk.
It’s a live experience designed to help you see more clearly.
This session is built as a Be Curious LIVE experience.
You’ll step into:
A live conversation that explores how beliefs shape behavior, identity, and action
A guided moment of reflection to help you process what is coming up for you
A live audience engagement segment with Nir Eyal
A shared room where insight becomes recognition, and recognition becomes connection
You’re not just coming to listen.
You’re coming to notice what has been quietly shaping your life.
What the evening will feel like
The experience follows a deliberate arc:
Live conversation - a powerful exploration of the ideas behind belief, identity, and agency
Pause and reflection - a moment to slow down and notice what is landing for you
Audience engagement - selected questions and live interaction with Nir Eyal
After-conversation connection - space to continue the night beyond the stage
The goal is not just insight.
It is recognition, engagement, and a shift in the room.
What others are saying
People who’ve attended past Be Curious LIVE come with an expectation of a conversation.
Most leave, realising a shift.
"The conversation and the setup of the event were geared towards reflection instead of just consuming content."
XY Ke
"No expectations coming in, inspired beyond going out! 🔥"
Cheryl K
"Experiencing Bill (past guest) in person was something else, and incredibly meaningful to have our questions answered."
Anna Haotanto
Meet
Nir Eyal
Nir Eyal is one of the leading voices on behavior change and human potential. His work has helped millions better understand habits, focus, and agency.
He is a New York Times bestselling author and his books Hooked and Indistractable have sold millions of copies. His latest book was an instant New York Times bestseller.
His latest book, Beyond Belief, is especially relevant here because it explores a powerful question:
What if the beliefs shaping your behavior are limiting you more than you realise?
This conversation is not about motivation.
It is about the beliefs underneath the behavior.
Why this matters now
Many people assume they are stuck because they need more discipline, or more effort.
But beliefs can become invisible drivers.
They shape what you notice, what you expect, what you avoid, and what you repeat.
Nir’s work repeatedly returns to this idea: beliefs are not neutral.
They shape perception, anticipation, and action.
If you have been repeating the same patterns,
the problem may be deeper than behavior.
What you may leave seeing differently
By the end of the evening, you may begin to:
Recognise a belief that has been shaping your reactions or decisions
See how a pattern you thought was “just you” may have a deeper source
Understand why trying harder has not been enough
Walk away with a sharper question about what is actually driving your life
Not everything changes in one night.
But sometimes one night changes what you can no longer ignore.
If something feels off, it is worth finding out why
Figure out what's controlling your decisions.
Join Be Curious LIVE with Nir Eyal for an experience designed to help you see what may be shaping your life more than you realise.
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For those navigating change in self, work, or relationships, it’s a place to reflect, question, and move forward with greater awareness.
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